Safety Guidelines for Using Xcorts.net and Meeting Escorts

Stay Safe on Xcorts.net – Essential Safety Guidelines for Clients & Escorts

At Xcorts.net, your safety is our highest priority.
While we operate strictly as an advertising directory, we believe Users and Advertisers should have clear guidance on how to stay safe online and during any private, in-person interactions arranged outside the Website.

This guide outlines best-practice safety measures for clients (users) and escorts (advertisers) to help ensure responsible, consensual, and secure interactions.


1. General Safety Principles (For Everyone)

1.1 Trust Your Instincts

If something feels wrong — a profile, a message, a request, or a meeting — stop immediately.
Do not ignore discomfort or red flags.

1.2 Keep All Interactions Consensual

Consent is absolute.
No one should feel pressured, threatened, or obligated to do anything they do not want to do.

1.3 Respect Boundaries

Both clients and escorts have the right to:
✔ Say no
✔ Set limits
✔ End communication
✔ Walk away from a meeting

Boundaries must be respected at all times.

1.4 Report Suspicious Behaviour

If you see anything concerning (fake profiles, underage content, threats, scams), please report it to:
📧 reports@xcorts.net


2. Online Safety on Xcorts.net

2.1 Protect Your Personal Information

Avoid sharing:

  • Full name

  • Physical address

  • Workplace details

  • Banking information

  • Copies of IDs

  • Photos of your vehicle or license plate

Share only what is necessary.

2.2 Verify Profiles

Before meeting:

  • Check profile consistency

  • Request a recent photo

  • Look for discrepancies (age, face, location)

Escorts may also verify clients through a brief voice note, a safe verification service, or references without revealing sensitive data.

2.3 Use a Separate Phone Number

Clients and escorts should consider:

  • Using a dedicated business/secondary number

  • Using apps that protect caller identity

  • Never sharing private WhatsApp backups or unblurred personal photos

2.4 Avoid Clicking Unknown Links

Do NOT open:

  • Random links sent by clients

  • “Verification” or “payment” links

  • Any suspicious URL

These may contain scams or malware.

2.5 Beware of Scams

Watch for:

  • Requests for “upfront payments”

  • People asking for banking details

  • Sudden behaviour changes

  • Profiles that seem too good to be true

  • Users refusing basic verification

Report scams immediately.


3. Safety Tips for Clients (Users)

3.1 Be Respectful

Always treat escorts with dignity.
Aggressive or threatening behaviour is unsafe and illegal.

3.2 Confirm Rates and Boundaries in Advance

Before meeting:

  • Confirm rates

  • Confirm time

  • Confirm expectations

  • Respect their rules and limitations

  • Never pressure anyone for activities not agreed upon

3.3 Meet in a Safe Location

If possible:

  • Choose neutral locations

  • Avoid isolated areas

  • Avoid bringing strangers to your home unless you feel safe

  • Share the meeting location with a trusted person if possible

3.4 Do Not Drink Excessively Before the Meeting

Alcohol and drugs impair judgment and increase risks for everyone.

3.5 Carry Cash Safely

Many escorts prefer cash.
If withdrawing money:

  • Use ATMs in public areas

  • Avoid exposing large amounts of cash

  • Keep belongings secure

3.6 Keep Communication Professional

Avoid:

  • Threats

  • Harassment

  • Personal insults

  • Attempts to force or manipulate

These behaviours compromise safety for both parties.


4. Safety Tips for Escorts (Advertisers)

4.1 Screen Clients

Before meeting, consider checking:

  • Basic verification (voice note or call)

  • A polite conversation to assess behaviour

  • Whether the client respects your boundaries from the start

4.2 Choose Safe Meeting Locations

If working privately:

  • Ensure someone knows where you are

  • Use a secure building with controlled access

  • Avoid isolated locations

  • Never meet in a client’s car or secluded spot

4.3 Keep Your Phone Charged and Accessible

Always have:

  • A fully charged phone

  • Data or airtime

  • Emergency contacts accessible

  • Location-sharing enabled (if comfortable)

4.4 Control Your Own Transport

Where possible:

  • Use your own transport

  • Arrange a trusted driver

  • Avoid relying on clients for transport

  • Keep enough money for an immediate exit if needed

4.5 Do Not Allow Clients to Pressure You

If someone becomes aggressive or tries to force you into anything:

  • Leave immediately

  • Contact someone you trust

  • Block the person

  • Report the profile

Your safety comes first.

4.6 Secure Your Working Environment

If hosting:

  • Keep valuables hidden

  • Use a peephole or security gate

  • Keep a safety tool (non-lethal) accessible

  • Avoid allowing multiple people into your space

  • Lock your door as soon as the client arrives inside


5. Safety During the Meeting (For Both Parties)

5.1 Meet in Public First (Optional)

A short coffee or public meeting can build trust.

5.2 Stay Sober

Avoid meeting if heavily intoxicated.
Substances can make both parties vulnerable.

5.3 Protect Against Theft

Both escorts and clients should:

  • Never leave phones or wallets unattended

  • Keep bags zipped

  • Avoid showing expensive items unnecessarily

5.4 Do Not Exchange Banking Information

Avoid:

  • E-wallet requests

  • EFTs requiring identity

  • Sharing account details

Cash or verified secure payment methods are safer.

5.5 Respect Health and Hygiene Boundaries

Discuss expectations clearly.
No one may force unsafe behaviour such as condom removal (“stealthing”), which is illegal and dangerous.


6. Recognising Red Flags

Stop communication or leave immediately if the other party:

  • Refuses to verify themselves

  • Becomes aggressive or controlling

  • Constantly changes prices or terms

  • Asks for personal information

  • Tries to negotiate unsafe acts

  • Insists on strange locations

  • Shows signs of intoxication or erratic behaviour

  • Brings additional unannounced people

  • Attempts to film without consent

Trust your instincts — safety comes first.


7. After the Meeting

7.1 Leave Separately

Do not follow each other outside unless agreed for safety.

7.2 Review Honestly

Leave feedback privately for your own records so you remember who felt safe.

7.3 Block Unsafe Contacts

Do not hesitate to block anyone who:

  • Disrespected boundaries

  • Was dishonest

  • Made you uncomfortable

7.4 Report Serious Incidents

Immediately report illegal or threatening behaviour to:
📧 reports@xcorts.net

We may remove listings or take further action as needed.


8. Legal Awareness (South Africa)

Both parties should remember:

  • Underage involvement is strictly illegal

  • Coercion or threats are criminal offences

  • Non-consensual acts are prosecutable

  • Human trafficking concerns must be reported

  • Filming someone without consent is illegal

  • Theft, assault, and intimidation remain crimes regardless of context

If you believe someone is in danger, contact SAPS immediately.


9. Xcorts.net’s Role

Xcorts.net is not involved in bookings, meetings, payments, or agreements.
We cannot mediate disputes or verify participants.

However, we take safety seriously and will:

  • Remove listings reported as unsafe

  • Ban abusive users

  • Report illegal content to the proper authorities when necessary

Your safety matters — and responsible use ensures a safer community for everyone.


10. Need to Report Something?

For safety concerns, suspicious activity, fraud, or abuse:
📧 reports@xcorts.net

All reports are reviewed promptly.

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